Elizabeth Barrette (ysabetwordsmith) wrote,
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When People Break

Recently I found some good articles about when people break and what problems that causes. Everyone has a breaking point, although some people stash theirs in a nonstandard location. For most folks, if they are shut out of the economy -- denied a job, a place to live, a way of obtaining food, the ability to support their family, etc. -- for a significant period of time, there is a high chance that they will break. People can break inward (suicide) or outward (murder and other violence). If you buy a rope, it generally has a little tag telling its lift strength and its shock strength, so you know that if you put more weight on it than that it'll be your fault when the rope breaks. Unfortunately people don't come with tags like that, so we have to extrapolate.

So we use statistics to measure people breaking. Suicide and murder statistics are fairly useful, although it can be hard to gather all the relevant data. What we can see in the articles below is that these signs of human breakage are rising at alarming rates. We can also see indicators of what types of stress causes people to break in these ways.

Yana Kunichoff | Army Suicide Rates Hit Record and May Continue to Rise
Yana Kunichoff, Truthout: "Suicides among veterans and soldiers have reached a record high this year and are set to continue rising, a Pentagon press conference confirmed Tuesday. The announcement, coming on the day that the suicide rate for 2009 reached the record number of 2008, leaves advocates worrying about the troop escalation of the Obama administration and the measures the Army has in place to deal with the combat scars which leave no physical trace."


Nick Turse | Violent Deaths Are Now Following Evictions, Foreclosures and Job Losses
Nick Turse, AlterNet: "In 2007, Jason Rodriguez was fired from his position at an Orlando, Florida engineering firm and ended up taking a job as a 'sandwich artist' at a Subway restaurant. His salary was cut nearly in half and his debts mounted until, last May, he filed for bankruptcy, listing his assets at just over $4,600 and his liabilities at nearly $90,000. Although he lived only 30 minutes away, according to his former mother-in-law, America Holloway, Rodriguez barely saw his son. When the boy asked why his father didn't visit, Holloway said Rodriguez told him: 'Because I don't have any money. I don't have a job. I don't have anything to eat. When things get better, I'll come see you.' "


A responsible society tries to make life reasonably safe, comfortable, and productive for its members. That is the point of having a society in the first place, to make life better than living alone. So a good society tries not to break the people in it, and when the breakage rate is rising, looks for causes and takes action to stop those from causing such bad problems.

A suicide sends a message such as...
"You win; I fold. I can't keep playing this game. I have nothing left to play with."
"I quit. You suck, you're cheating, and I am leaving."

A murder sends a message such as...
"I have run out of energy to control my base nature."
"I have run out of desire to control my base nature, since nobody else seems to bother to control theirs."
"I have decided to leave, so I have no reason not to express my extreme displeasure toward certain individuals and/or society at large."

A familicide sends a message such as...
"Not only am I leaving, I'm taking my family with me, because I don't know what else to do."
"Not only am I leaving, I'm taking my family with me, because your society sucks so bad it is literally a FATE WORSE THAN DEATH."
And the idea of someone killing themselves and their entire family isn't unthinkable in America today: so many people are thinking of it and doing it that it now has its very own word in the English language. It's important enough to encode. That's appalling.

Now let's look at the wider implications. Maybe someone doesn't care about other folks committing murder or suicide; they're just failures, after all, and important people are competent enough not to get into that situation. So then, look at the collateral damage. Every soldier who dies on American soil is a soldier not available for deployment in combat or other service gratifying to the citizens. Every murder and violent crime makes America a little less safe for everyone -- you have to leave your home some time and breakage-inspired shooting sprees don't confine themselves to ghettos. Every murder, suicide, and other violent crime has a severe negative impact multiplied by the number of people who knew the victim(s) and in some cases extending to affect an entire town. In that fashion, someone else's breakage can lash back to cause grief for people who don't think they are connected and don't think they need to care -- maybe they have a friend or relative who lives near there or knew the person and is wondering, "Is this my fault? Did I miss some kind of clue?" forever. People so impacted thus have less energy, attention, and mental resilience to apply to their own challenges and that can make life harder for the people around them, so it keeps spreading. There are even more obscure effects: murders and suicides tend to be messy. Somebody has to clean that up, somebody who will likely be unsettled by it and in any case will not be available for other duties while mopping brains off the floor. And who's going to want to buy or rent a place where a murder or suicide happened? That's hard on the landowner.

It doesn't matter if you think the broken people are horrible for doing what they do. They are doing it, and we-all are paying the price. If we want that to stop, we are going to have to arrange things so that our society does not break people then step on the broken shards and hop around going "Ow! Ow! Ow! Why did you do that to me, you useless turd?"
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You seem to be confusing medical use of marijuana with addictive use by those who give in to the haze and drop out of life. Please don't.

You also appear to be denoting disabled persons as being without purpose or function in society. Again, please don't.
When discussing macro-issues, particularly with respect to the dominant paradigm, analysis of existing phenomena can sometimes be mistaken for agreement, reification and/or defense.

Please read my remarks above and below with this disclaimer firmly in mind.

The concept of the "deserving" and "unfortunate" versus the "undeserving" and "lazy" is embedded all throughout our society's decision making processes.

I agree that marijuana should be completely legalized. This does not change the fact that medical marijuana is only palatable to the powers that be because those who benefit are largely outside the workforce. (If it allows some to keep working, so much the better ... the larger the supply of labor, the less each laborer is worth.)

The unemployment rate, especially the "true" rate, is a measure of the power that employers have over their human capital.

As for disability, the idea that only those who have worked are eligible for disability payments itself separates the "worthy" (ie insurance for injured workers) from the "unworthy" (born with or suffering from conditions that preclude participation in the workforce.). The term "useless" (which should have appeared in quotes, my bad) is only with respect to the aforementioned furnaces. "Unfit for use (by the powers that be) except as scaffolding, or firewood" is closer to the meaning I intended, with apologies to Muyashi.

Personal attacks and unprivileged attempts at censorship are rejected with equal portions of derision and contempt. My apologies to those who took personal offense at generic and sweeping remarks; none was intended.
>> When discussing macro-issues, particularly with respect to the dominant paradigm, analysis of existing phenomena can sometimes be mistaken for agreement, reification and/or defense.<<

Also, discussing sensitive issues makes it easy for people's feelings to get hurt, especially if some folks are already on the ragged edge due to related or unrelated life issues of their own. I try to provide a space where it's reasonably safe for people to discuss touchy topics, with the understanding that we will try to be reasonable and respectful about it, and apologize and rephrase if necessary.

>> The concept of the "deserving" and "unfortunate" versus the "undeserving" and "lazy" is embedded all throughout our society's decision making processes. <<

I think you are right about that. It is a flaw which contributes to many problems. I believe that all people have worth as human beings and therefore have a right to life including those things necessary for the continuation of life. Additional worth may be added according to a person's skillful contribution to society, raising of children, effort in developing a wholesome personality, and other desirable things.

>>I agree that marijuana should be completely legalized. This does not change the fact that medical marijuana is only palatable to the powers that be because those who benefit are largely outside the workforce. (If it allows some to keep working, so much the better ... the larger the supply of labor, the less each laborer is worth.)<<

Maybe, maybe not. I have always felt that a key reason people balk at the idea of marijuana as medicine is that it makes people feel good. There's a belief (probably hung over from Christianity) that suffering is good for the soul. I think that contributes to this reluctance to let people have medicine they need, because the side effects are pleasant rather than unpleasant.

>>The unemployment rate, especially the "true" rate, is a measure of the power that employers have over their human capital.<<

Yes. When money is the primary measure of a person's worth, and the means for survival, but nobody is guaranteed the right to earn money or have enough to live on ... that's an extremely insecure and stressful situation. The people at the top don't feel it, but even they are subject to it, because all that protects them is their money. If they lose that for any reason -- and there are many ways for that to happen -- they will be cast down into the pit of suffering along with all the lower-class unfortunates.

>>As for disability, the idea that only those who have worked are eligible for disability payments itself separates the "worthy" (ie insurance for injured workers) from the "unworthy" (born with or suffering from conditions that preclude participation in the workforce.).<<

That has always bothered me. I am further infuriated by society's wastefulness regarding human resources. A great many people would be functional, or at least more functional, if their physical or mental problems were treating using resources we have. But society chooses to withhold those resources, causing great suffering and making people useless who could be useful. Most people are miserable if they feel useless, which is a severe problem with unemployment of more than a brief period. There is a general desire to do something meaningful with one's time. I think that if we put more effort into making it possible for everyone to be as productive as possible, in a sustainable fashion, the result would be a net gain.

My daughter is getting disability payments (whether she ought to be or not is a separate issue), despite not having ever held down a regular full-time job.

One does not have to have worked to get disability payments.
I'm glad to hear that's the case for your family. I've known of other cases where disability was not available because the person had not worked, or had worked but not "enough."