Thursday is Thanksgiving . Ideally it's a time to gather with friends and family, to give thanks for the good things in our lives. What are you thankful for? However, it has a dark history . I like to be subversive. Consider exploring traditional foodways and native recipes . Among our dishes are mashed squash and a green bean casserole. ;) Holidays can also be stressful. Here are some general tips for Thanskgiving relief . Know how to cope with grief or being alone . Dysfunctional family dynamics may require extra skills . Here's wishing everyone a happy holiday!