Autistic Communication
Here's a thoughtful post about autistic communication. Notice the observation that the neurovariant person is ALWAYS WRONG. They have no right to comfort or sanity; they are always expected to hurt themselves to make other people happy. Which is a horrible thing to do to anyone.
One reason I don't have a lot of friends is that I demand equality in relationships. I will respect your quirks to the extent you respect mine. If I can't accommodate something I will say so. But I am nobody's doormat, and I think that people who treat folks as doormats are themselves assholes. I don't want to socialize with assholes.
One reason I don't have a lot of friends is that I demand equality in relationships. I will respect your quirks to the extent you respect mine. If I can't accommodate something I will say so. But I am nobody's doormat, and I think that people who treat folks as doormats are themselves assholes. I don't want to socialize with assholes.