Elizabeth Barrette (ysabetwordsmith) wrote,
Elizabeth Barrette
ysabetwordsmith

  • Mood:

Gender Variant Clothes

 Butch, genderqueer, lesbian, etc. clothing in masculine cut for female forms.  Really expensive but it looks like you get what you pay for.

Period shorts for men who menstruate.  This is awesome because having to deal with mismatched genitals is hard enough for transmen, and it's a zillion times worse when the damn thing starts bleeding.  Many, though not all, transmen hate having to handle that part of their bodies.  A sanitary product that does not require getting his fingers in there is enormously helpful for some guys.
Tags: gender studies, networking, shopping
Subscribe

  • Post a new comment

    Error

    default userpic

    Your IP address will be recorded 

    When you submit the form an invisible reCAPTCHA check will be performed.
    You must follow the Privacy Policy and Google Terms of use.
  • 8 comments
That's great news. Practical alternatives for the converse -- feminine cut and style for male forms that isn't high femme or fetishwear -- still seem stuck on the (fashion) runway, awaiting clearance for takeoff.

My crotch and butt don't conform to anything sold in stores very well. My stylistic sweet spot is in the rough vicinity of low femme. I'd fall hard for anything that actually worked on my body and didn't set me up to be misgendered as a "man" or as a "woman". Both of those are wrong.
I have seen a few things that are feminine for male bodies, but not much everyday stuff -- as you say, most of it is overblown. But I am always watching!
It took me a second to parse this. My first thought was period as in medieval/Renaissance, not period as in menstruation.

The product is very cool, though, and I've sent the link to a friend whose brother falls into the category of men who menstruate. (And why his insurance will pay for his hormone treatments but not for the hysterectomy that would make those more effective is beyond me!)
Often because surgery is more expensive, they can get away without paying for it because trans treatment often is not guaranteed or only incomplete, or some places distinguish between chemical and physical alignment treatments. It's shitty when you can't get the help you need. People are assholes.

And then they wonder why the murder and suicide rates for transfolk are so bloody high.
"Shorts for the SCA for... OH!"

(Sorry - hung out with SCAdians in college, and "period" now means "appropriate for the time frames." (I bet you knew that, but someone else might not. And if you didn't - I'm being too wordy again, aren't I?))

This also bugs me about me a bit. (Not a lot. A bit.) Because I journeyed for a woman and found her as a child, and a girl child and it was only afterward that I realized that she'd been born with male parts and raised as a boy. So there's some part of me that does understand this (at least enough not to be staggered when my guides show me truth), but it took me a too-long time to parse "men who menstruate".

(Um. Side note: talking because I'm talky today - definitely *not* asking anyone to affirm or accept my confusion/discomfort. But I do have a kind of sense that other people might be helped if they see that not everyone just snaps into immediate, perfect understanding/acceptance. And yeah, definitely talky today.)
Complicated topics can take a while to wrap one's head around.
"A sanitary product that does not require getting his fingers in there is enormously helpful for some guys."
Actually a lot of women would probably like having those as well! Not everyone who's well-matched with their genitals likes having to deal with them when they're messy.
:^\
I am sure that many women would appreciate it too. But it is more likely to be a matter of disgust than the brain-wrecking horror it is for some men.