Elizabeth Barrette (ysabetwordsmith) wrote,
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Doing and Trying

I've never liked Yoda's "do or do not" quote.  This is why
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YES.
What's annoying is that in the explicit, specific context, it makes sense. Luke said he'll "try" and Yoda knew what that meant - he'd make an effort, knowing damn well he was going to fail, and that, of course, meant he'd fail. So - at that time, in that context, "do, or do not" was the proper advice.

As general advice? It sucks. And yet, many people view it as general, not specific.
I think it's unreasonable to expect a novice to "do." Usually they try and fail a BUNCH of times, and you have got to convince them to keep going. That means showing them that failure is not an end, but is a sign of progress.

I tell my students, "If you're not making any mistakes, you're not learning, you're coasting."
Sure - that's why I said that it sucks as general advice - and not in some naughty-fun way.

But in that particular context, "I'll try, even though I know I can't possibly succeed" when a teacher's trying to insist he does have the capability, it's a reasonable thing to say.
As general advice, it means to actually try instead of just pretending to try. There are a lot of situations where you can pretend to try and ensure failure.
On the gripping hand, it can be taken too far. My standard, automatic response to any request is "I'll try" or some variation, even when it's something that, after a moment's thought, I know perfectly well I can do.

Something about reduced expectations.
I only promise when I am completely confident that I can deliver, and willing to make something a priority. So I don't give it out very often.
I don't like Yoda's quote either.
I've seen too many situations in my life where no amount of effort could change the outcome.
I do agree that someone needs to give something their very best effort before they call it a lost cause. Sitting down and giving things a good think-through before putting forth a solid effort also tends to help things happen.
:^)
My son's first Kindergarten teacher had a class motto: "We don't say `I can't'-- we say `I'll try.'" I have represented Ms. Carol as being at war with Yoda ever since. (Watch out, Yoda! You fight like a Muppet, but Ms. Carol-- doesn't.)
The drawback to that is it negates self-knowledge. A lot of people get hurt that way. It's one thing to insist that someone make an attempt at something new. But there are lots of things people can't do, and sometimes forcing people to go through the motions is harmful physically or psychologically. You learn that nobody believes you or cares about your limits. This is a huge problem in schools where students get dragged through things they can't do for years, often without any effective problem-solving to account for their difficulties, until even the small ability they had is worn away and they just hate the whole building and everyone in it.
This was not a problem in Ms. Carol's class.

Agreed about the general proposition.

Personally, I was simply amused at the notion of Yoda and Ms. Carol in combat.
Amen. I always thought Yoda could take a walk for that comment.

tomtac

June 2 2015, 12:08:41 UTC 6 years ago Edited:  June 2 2015, 12:09:19 UTC

Agreed on what you say. Definitely.

As far as the specific situation is concerned, this immediately seemed to me to be << too early >> in the Luke-Yoda relationship for that kind of command. It would have been different if, later on, after seeing Yoda perform some Jedi magic and being convinced that Yoda would not give an "impossible" command and also having some idea of what Yoda was about, Yoda gave an order like that and Luke had to man up and give it everything. At that point, he could promise an accomplishment and not fear being thrown into Mitochlorian Hell if he failed.

But just a couple of screen-minutes after Yoda's "silly old fool" performance ("Mine! Mine! Oooooooooooo ... You seek Jed-Eye!"), they were still getting to know each other. I kind of think the whole scene was played out to-turn-doubt-into-wonder in the - audience - ... not really Luke.

Sometime, I plan to blog on why this is not a problem for me anymore. I put a tiny bit of it into this entry here.
It demonstrates a flaw of classic Eastern education, often used in martial arts: not explaining things and not allowing questions. You wind up with two kinds of students, the ones who can figure out on their own and the ones who can't and decide the lessons are a waste of their time. Which is part of why Luke left.

Re: Yes...

tomtac

June 5 2015, 16:22:06 UTC 6 years ago Edited:  June 5 2015, 16:22:53 UTC

Good points. And in those cases, the "trust" and "relationship" I mentioned would be institutionalized. Either the teacher is a department head, or has a huge reputation, or is proudly wearing a Black Belt ... no one is supposed to question those qualifications. So, as you say, questions get ignored or even get "down votes", and if the student doesn't get it after a few tries, the teacher just moves on to the next student.

Good points.

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ysabetwordsmith

6 years ago

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tomtac

6 years ago

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