By my book, a scenario that allows no correct or safe answer, but always places blame, is inherently corrupt and should be rejected. However, that doesn't mean there is no real problem going on, just that the person attempting to discuss a topic has framed it poorly. Some problems are obscure, complex, and easily overlooked or misread. They still need attention. But starting out with any version of "everyone is wrong and bad" cripples discussion and problem-solving. I prefer approaches with a higher chance of success, such as logic.
Rule #1 of logic: You must be specific.
Rule #2 of logic: You must be able to back your claims with evidence.
Rule #3 of logic: You must avoid logical fallacies in framing your argument.
These rules of logic hold whether you are discussing an individual issue or seeking to establish a broad pattern which connects many separate events.
It is difficult or impossible to solve problems without a clear understanding of what has gone wrong. Consider the facts, because they remain true whether anyone knows or believes them or not. Also consider emotions so that you don't very logically paint yourself into a corner where you will be miserable. Remember that everyone is human, and within a human context we cannot make everything perfect, but we can and should strive to do the best that we can.
July 15 2013, 20:47:22 UTC 7 years ago
Basically, logical rudeness is a response that attempts to explain the opposition to a theory in terms of the theory itself, and by so doing, insulate the person who is being rude against having to consider that objection.
Like logically fallacious reasoning, a logically rude argument does not need to be wrong, but again like logically fallacious reasoning, it's impossible to know once it's been employed, because it shields the argument to a point where the argument can't be tested any more.
And, as is hinted by the name, logical rudeness often feels, well, rude. It feels like the person doing it is somehow not playing by the same rules. I think the reason is that it feels like the arguer "gets something for free": namely, that the theory is accepted by default so that he may use it to shield his argument by applying it to objections.
Well...
July 15 2013, 20:58:00 UTC 7 years ago
If it cannot be tested, then it need not be entertained, and may be rejected on those grounds while the speaker is advised to come back with a properly framed argument.
A related rule: Christopher Hitchens - "That which can be asserted without evidence, can be dismissed without evidence."
July 16 2013, 00:09:52 UTC 7 years ago
"Are you sure that's the truth? Because this keeps happening (because I keep making it happen)."
Well...
July 16 2013, 00:25:29 UTC 7 years ago
I tend to be the marsh-wiggle stomping on the magic incense in that argument.