My hair is large nap and very assertive. It's one of those things you get, especially in America, when you mix a lot of genes together from different sources; you'll see it on people who are very pale, like me, and others who are quite dark. Some Hispanic branches that have African heritage, like Cuban, also have it. If people don't like it, that's their problem. I get less flack about it now than when I was little, but there is still a tendency to equate unmanageable hair with unmanageable personality. For me, this is truth in advertising; YMMV.
I really like the way African hair looks. It does all these nifty things that are different than what fine straight hair does. If you want an easy-care option, you can trim it down to a close, fuzzy cap that stays put pretty well without a lot of hassle. Dreadlocks take some work to establish but after that are low-maintainence and very striking. Some people enjoy a big afro style. You can use cornrow braids to make all kinds of interesting patterns. Twists are another good option, such as Senegalese twists or other 2-strand twists. Bantu knots are small twists that wrap around themselves. (This is how my character Maryam Smith wears her hair.) Because the texture is so sturdy, this kind of hair can be dressed up in really sculptural styles like some of the traditional tribal hairdos from Africa. Some modern versions are also sculptural.
The key to beautiful hair is working with what you have, not trying to make it into something it isn't. Any hair can be beautiful. Different types do different things well or poorly. Learn what your hair likes and doesn't like.
Some general resources:
African Hair Styles
Black Hair Media
Tips for Little Ones