Elizabeth Barrette (ysabetwordsmith) wrote,
Elizabeth Barrette
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Let the Sexists Forfeit

In order to keep a girl from playing football, two opposing teams threatened to forfeit if she was allowed to play.  There's a petition against this

Better idea?  Don't give in to the fucking sexists by benching girls.  LET THEM FORFEIT.  If all the schools with mixed-sex sports teams did this, the sexists would either have to play them, or substantially get shut out of sports.  Catering to that kind of nonsense is utterly unacceptable.
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Declining an offer of a free won match because your opponent wants to forfeit seems completely nonsensical to me.
The difficulty is that it deprives players of experience,
and this adversely impacts their future.
Without documented statistics,
athletic scholarships might not be offered to deserving players.
And, honestly, the real motive beyond forfeiting these games,
even if they have a legitimate supporting reason,
is to prevent the female athlete from proving her ability.
>>The difficulty is that it deprives players of experience,
and this adversely impacts their future.<<

So it does. And that penalty should fall on the sexists, not on the girls. Their prejudice should cost them something. They shouldn't fob off the cost on other people.
I don't know about North Carolina,
but...
Well, let us suppose the woman in question is pregnant,
and miscarriages subsequent to a tackle.
In some states, the players who tackled her
could be charged with a felony.

If I were a coach, I would be hesitant
to expose my players to that risk.
Girls play other physical contact sports, like soccer, field hockey, and basketball. Why should this, or the issue of namecalling that you raised in another comment, suddenly be a special issue in football?

We have a strongly ingrained cultural idea of football as something that only boys can do, so we come up with excuses why only boys can do it. And that isn't right. If a teenage girl can play on a field hockey team or participate in a martial arts tournament, then she can play football just fine.
Every sport is unique to its own degree.
Namecalling in football is very different from namecalling in other sports;
in football, you use it to draw an opposing line offsides,
or to provoke an unsportsmanlike conduct call,
when you need the penalty.
Yes, women can play football,
but there are a number of points that must not be left to solve themselves.
I've only mentioned two of many "worst-case-scenario" possibilities;
if either of those were to actually occur,
the whole idea of women playing football, and of equality in general,
will be set back substantially.
It's good to stand up for equality,
but before you do, be certain of your footing.

laylalawlor

9 years ago

msstacy13

9 years ago

laylalawlor

9 years ago

msstacy13

9 years ago

Boys who want to play football may also conceal a health condition which would make such activity risky. Sometimes it gets them injured or killed. This does not make most people say that boys should not play football.

Re: Well...

msstacy13

9 years ago

I may be misreading, but I think msstacy13's point is that if the team on which the girl plays accepts the other team's forfeit, *their own* athletes are also penalized by not having the experience of playing and earning the statistics related to the games.

But I could be wrong.
Yes, that's what I mean,
except that both teams, all the players,
will suffer from the lost game time.
But the players of both teams suffer that particular loss,
although, as is often the case, the woman will be blamed for it.
If one team says, "We won't play with gurlz! Gurlz are yucky and shouldn't play boy sports!" then it is THEIR FAULT if the game doesn't happen. Everyone else just wants to play ball.

If players and other folks are unhappy with the results, try protesting the organization that practices sexual discrimination. Pandering to them just encourages the practice.

If the players of the opposing team call her a pussy,
will they be subject to prosecution for sexual harrassment?
The question may seem absurd, but it is not,
and until that question and others like it can be answered,
protests in this matter are misguided.

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I don't care much for sports, and never have, but I've always found it peculiar that there are women's versions of every sport except for football. Well, unless you count lingerie football, which I don't. And any sport without a legitimate women's version generally lets women play alongside men.

So yeah, let the misogynists forfeit.
This. Definitely.

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